Lesbian College Life
Most people find shy or scary to share with their room mates about their status. There is no need to worry or get scared to share that you enjoy being a lesbian. It is best to remain frank with your room mates. It will help to solve several conflicts and issues you may face in your college life. For instance, you can discuss with them matters like whether they are okay if you bring a date in their room. When you ask such questions, you will get an idea whether the room mate is broad minded or finding difficulty to adjust you.
Some room mates will be ready to mingle, and they enjoy lesbian companionship. In some college hostels, the college advisor will group the students according to their likes and dislikes. If possible, you can share your situation with an advisor and ask them to find a perfect match for your status. You need to find whether the room mate is treating you equally or shows discrepancies. If you want to remain close and build a good relationship, you have to talk and remain frank. Remember, college is a place where people will grow and learn lots of new things. It is a place where you change and grow as you wish. Try to learn from your room mates and forget small hurts.
During the college years, you would find hard to meet lesbian people in your community or college. Being a young adult, there are a lot of options to meet gay, trans, bisexual and lesbian girlfriends/boyfriends and friends. Here in this blog, we are going to discuss the places where you can meet lesbian students in the college.
The lesbian alliance: Most of the colleges have lesbian and gay organizations like gay student union, queers and allies and more. You can get enrolled in such groups and remain active. As you remain active, you will get in contact with several friends of your taste. You have to attend the social hours and check out the meetings whenever you have free time. If you are finding the group inactive or small in number, you can take steps to make it active. It is good to try lesbian movie night, coffee house or book discussion events.
Dorm: When you wander in the halls of the dorm, check out for stickers like No H8 or having a rainbow sticker on their door. These are signs to mention that they are open about this matter and willing to meet people. If you come across any such doors, then meet the person. Ask whether there are interested and open minded to talk such matters.
If you are studying in a college or university, you could easily find lesbian friends. Do you feel or have a crush on some person in your class? Do you find the girl who belongs to a type of liking woman? Is she is making eye contacts most of the time with you in the chemistry lab? Is she trying to explain you a corny joke? If your answers are yes to these questions, then she is trying to join with you. You have to talk and share what you feel with your girl. If you are not going to express your feelings, then there are chances to end up in disappointment. Join a person as lab partner or indulge in group studies to know about the person more. If you are getting chances to meet the person outside the class, then there are chances to come across topics like dating.
Most of the universities have a syllabus or lesson covering about lesbian and gay lifestyle. It can be either gay history, lesbian literature or some kind of feminist film theory. The lesbian students will show more interest than the normal, which you can easily spot and get along with them.
It is easy to meet lesbian or gay through your friends. It is well and good to share with one of your best and trusted friend, where they will help you in getting in touch with other lesbian friends or group. Nowadays, there is a lesbian or gay in every gang, and everyone is able to understand about their lifestyle.